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	<description>reb•e•lu•tion (reb’el lu shen) n. a teenage rebellion against low expectations</description>
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		<title>By: ClaireC</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-904851</link>
		<dc:creator>ClaireC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 18:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm speaking at my youth group this week on Doing Hard Things with a lot of focus on 1 Timothy 4:12 and this video has helped a lot. 

Answering the questions the video presents though:

1.Some of them, mainly disrespect and disregard to serious issues; my solutions to these are to respect the authority in my life, even though it might be hard because by honoring the authority in my life, I am honoring God who put that authority in place (also honoring God's word which commands its). As for disregard to serious issues? I'll try to turn to the Scripture to find God's answer to these issues and to reach my own conclussions based on the Word and on paying attenion.

2.My error in this question would be to view adults as indifferent because that's how they appear. I should give them credit for what they are in my life without puttting them above God's will and Word in the situation.

3. What else can I say? I'm workin' on it.

BONUS: Instead of reading fanfiction, I should read God's Word. Instead of wasting time on the computer, I should be on The Rebelution Blog learning (Or, ya' know, reading the Bible some more), and ultimatly I need to replace the un-Godly influences in my life with Godly ones; or as many of them as possible.

Also, I would appreciate prayer as I prepare God's message for my youth group this Sunday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m speaking at my youth group this week on Doing Hard Things with a lot of focus on 1 Timothy 4:12 and this video has helped a lot. </p>
<p>Answering the questions the video presents though:</p>
<p>1.Some of them, mainly disrespect and disregard to serious issues; my solutions to these are to respect the authority in my life, even though it might be hard because by honoring the authority in my life, I am honoring God who put that authority in place (also honoring God&#8217;s word which commands its). As for disregard to serious issues? I&#8217;ll try to turn to the Scripture to find God&#8217;s answer to these issues and to reach my own conclussions based on the Word and on paying attenion.</p>
<p>2.My error in this question would be to view adults as indifferent because that&#8217;s how they appear. I should give them credit for what they are in my life without puttting them above God&#8217;s will and Word in the situation.</p>
<p>3. What else can I say? I&#8217;m workin&#8217; on it.</p>
<p>BONUS: Instead of reading fanfiction, I should read God&#8217;s Word. Instead of wasting time on the computer, I should be on The Rebelution Blog learning (Or, ya&#8217; know, reading the Bible some more), and ultimatly I need to replace the un-Godly influences in my life with Godly ones; or as many of them as possible.</p>
<p>Also, I would appreciate prayer as I prepare God&#8217;s message for my youth group this Sunday.</p>
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		<title>By: MorganKay</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-499233</link>
		<dc:creator>MorganKay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2009 21:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Im with Nathan and Piper(: 
It IS hard to respect our parents, even though God said "Obey your father and Mother...". But im working on it and gradually getting better(:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im with Nathan and Piper(:<br />
It IS hard to respect our parents, even though God said &#8220;Obey your father and Mother&#8230;&#8221;. But im working on it and gradually getting better(:</p>
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		<title>By: Nathan</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-490852</link>
		<dc:creator>Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 20:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Believe me, it is EXTREMELY difficult to respect my parents, and it is not their fault.  My prideful desires wan't things to go my way, to stay my way, to be, my way.  But that is not how it works.  We are to obey and respect our parents.

Also, the teenage "time to have fun" was engulfing me till my mom discovered the Rebolution.  If it wasn't for you guys and men like Piper, Alcorn, etc.  I would be losing the most valuable days of my life.  Piper put it perfectly.

P.S. Does anyone have any hints on how to eliminate those "negative" characteristics??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Believe me, it is EXTREMELY difficult to respect my parents, and it is not their fault.  My prideful desires wan&#8217;t things to go my way, to stay my way, to be, my way.  But that is not how it works.  We are to obey and respect our parents.</p>
<p>Also, the teenage &#8220;time to have fun&#8221; was engulfing me till my mom discovered the Rebolution.  If it wasn&#8217;t for you guys and men like Piper, Alcorn, etc.  I would be losing the most valuable days of my life.  Piper put it perfectly.</p>
<p>P.S. Does anyone have any hints on how to eliminate those &#8220;negative&#8221; characteristics??</p>
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		<title>By: Peter John Matibag</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-489525</link>
		<dc:creator>Peter John Matibag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 10:13:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What John Piper had preached is in fact true, and young people like us must be like Timothy, who was mentored by Paul, to live an exemplary life to the believers in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, and in purity. We live in a world that has very low expectations on young generation maybe because of the false notions we get on media, books, popular beliefs which are contrary to the right one. 

Paul wanted Timothy to hang one amidst the despising he experienced and still be an example to them, the believers. We believers must be living a life not only in word, but must have the whole character as we have our Lord Jesus Christ as our Advocate, doing and walking as our Lord Jesus Christ's ambassadors and light to this murky world we live in.
A generation that would love, obey, serve and follow God is that should we be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What John Piper had preached is in fact true, and young people like us must be like Timothy, who was mentored by Paul, to live an exemplary life to the believers in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, and in purity. We live in a world that has very low expectations on young generation maybe because of the false notions we get on media, books, popular beliefs which are contrary to the right one. </p>
<p>Paul wanted Timothy to hang one amidst the despising he experienced and still be an example to them, the believers. We believers must be living a life not only in word, but must have the whole character as we have our Lord Jesus Christ as our Advocate, doing and walking as our Lord Jesus Christ&#8217;s ambassadors and light to this murky world we live in.<br />
A generation that would love, obey, serve and follow God is that should we be.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah A.</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-487437</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah A.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 21:50:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1.)  I would say I struggle with a little bit of each one but I think I struggle with cliquishness the most.  The friends I have are awesome and they encourage be unlike most of the other kids in my grade.  But there are a few other kids that I should probably hang out with because they encourage me too.  So towards the end of the school year I started hanging out with my old friends and some other people.  

2.)  I would have to agree with Emily - not being indifferent to what adults think.  I would say it's hard for me because once in a while I put my shoes in their position and would have done something completely different.  Most of the time though I just have to take a deep breath and trust that what they did/ are doing is what's best.

3.)  I would say that I am doing my best at doing it all but as everyone knows nobody's perfect and so I'm not doing everything perfectly but I'm trying my best to do everything I can.

~Sarah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1.)  I would say I struggle with a little bit of each one but I think I struggle with cliquishness the most.  The friends I have are awesome and they encourage be unlike most of the other kids in my grade.  But there are a few other kids that I should probably hang out with because they encourage me too.  So towards the end of the school year I started hanging out with my old friends and some other people.  </p>
<p>2.)  I would have to agree with Emily - not being indifferent to what adults think.  I would say it&#8217;s hard for me because once in a while I put my shoes in their position and would have done something completely different.  Most of the time though I just have to take a deep breath and trust that what they did/ are doing is what&#8217;s best.</p>
<p>3.)  I would say that I am doing my best at doing it all but as everyone knows nobody&#8217;s perfect and so I&#8217;m not doing everything perfectly but I&#8217;m trying my best to do everything I can.</p>
<p>~Sarah</p>
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		<title>By: Emily</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-486873</link>
		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 02:11:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To those questions, 1. Yes, i think most teenagers struggle with those things, Although i try to over come them, they are so common and overlooked by others often times i don't even realize i am doing those things, of course that gives me no excuse
2. I think that being indifferent to what adults think is way bigger temptation for me, sometimes i feel as if no matter what i do most adults (mainly in church and school environment) will have some kind of problem with it, so in result i stop caring if i offend them or annoy them, seems useless to care often times. Now i am starting to rtealize the more responsibility and expectation you give yourself the more others will respect you
3. Doing my best

Btw thank you so much for writing that book it has helped me so much spiritually!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To those questions, 1. Yes, i think most teenagers struggle with those things, Although i try to over come them, they are so common and overlooked by others often times i don&#8217;t even realize i am doing those things, of course that gives me no excuse<br />
2. I think that being indifferent to what adults think is way bigger temptation for me, sometimes i feel as if no matter what i do most adults (mainly in church and school environment) will have some kind of problem with it, so in result i stop caring if i offend them or annoy them, seems useless to care often times. Now i am starting to rtealize the more responsibility and expectation you give yourself the more others will respect you<br />
3. Doing my best</p>
<p>Btw thank you so much for writing that book it has helped me so much spiritually!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Alex</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-486777</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 19:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I recently started reading your book, and i must say it is completely life, and thought changing. I used to think that some of the things I do are quite great. Now I realize that they are actually rather normal. You two inspire me to become more 'radical' for God. This blog is interesting in that it doesn't necessarily say to completely rebel against all that adults are and it doesn't say to completely ignore them either. It says something that really makes sense. Take what they tell us, evaluate it and see whether it is from God. If it is, try to make it better and if it is not the disregard it i suppose. It definitely makes me think. I really like this</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently started reading your book, and i must say it is completely life, and thought changing. I used to think that some of the things I do are quite great. Now I realize that they are actually rather normal. You two inspire me to become more &#8216;radical&#8217; for God. This blog is interesting in that it doesn&#8217;t necessarily say to completely rebel against all that adults are and it doesn&#8217;t say to completely ignore them either. It says something that really makes sense. Take what they tell us, evaluate it and see whether it is from God. If it is, try to make it better and if it is not the disregard it i suppose. It definitely makes me think. I really like this</p>
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		<title>By: Carrie Joy</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-486705</link>
		<dc:creator>Carrie Joy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 14:39:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In thinking about 1 Timothy 4:12 “Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity,” I asked why does he speak to youth. It has to be more than the fact that they are annoying, because they are not the only ones looked down upon or despised. Why does he not speak to the poor or the elderly or the infirm? It, of course, is not implying that they should not be examples in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity, but they are not the ones being addressed. 

So why are youth, this despised group, chosen to be an example? Perhaps with their youthful energy, they are more able to strive. Perhaps in their still childlike faith, they are able to know Jesus in a more genuine way? But perhaps they are exhorted because it will be most difficult for them. One of the things that set youth apart from other despised groups is that youth think they are pretty big stuff. The poor, elderly, and infirm don’t think they have it all together, nor are they confident in there independence. Youth, however, often do think they are fully capable of all that life brings to them. Perhaps he address them to be examples because the only way to truly be a leader is to serve - the only way to be an example is to be humble.

Rather than simply providing a list of things that we need to do, or not do, Paul is pointing to exactly the core issue - our youthful pride. We want to be an example - people to look to us, but the only way to do that is to not put ourselves forward. Perhaps that is why God keeps bringing me back to the phrase, "It is not what you do, but what God does in you." It takes the focus off of me and puts it back on Christ.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In thinking about 1 Timothy 4:12 “Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity,” I asked why does he speak to youth. It has to be more than the fact that they are annoying, because they are not the only ones looked down upon or despised. Why does he not speak to the poor or the elderly or the infirm? It, of course, is not implying that they should not be examples in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity, but they are not the ones being addressed. </p>
<p>So why are youth, this despised group, chosen to be an example? Perhaps with their youthful energy, they are more able to strive. Perhaps in their still childlike faith, they are able to know Jesus in a more genuine way? But perhaps they are exhorted because it will be most difficult for them. One of the things that set youth apart from other despised groups is that youth think they are pretty big stuff. The poor, elderly, and infirm don’t think they have it all together, nor are they confident in there independence. Youth, however, often do think they are fully capable of all that life brings to them. Perhaps he address them to be examples because the only way to truly be a leader is to serve - the only way to be an example is to be humble.</p>
<p>Rather than simply providing a list of things that we need to do, or not do, Paul is pointing to exactly the core issue - our youthful pride. We want to be an example - people to look to us, but the only way to do that is to not put ourselves forward. Perhaps that is why God keeps bringing me back to the phrase, &#8220;It is not what you do, but what God does in you.&#8221; It takes the focus off of me and puts it back on Christ.</p>
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		<title>By: Bethany</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bethany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 17:13:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>one thing that i find interesting about 1 Timothy 4:12 is that it says "do not let ANYONE look down on you because you are young..." not just adults, not just parents, but ANYONE. that includes your siblings, your peers. they may not always look down on you neccesarily because you are young but the reaction we have should be the same wether it's looked down upon for age, race, religion, social status, friends, family, hobbies, etc, etc, the loist goes on and on. one thing we need to not do is focus so much on just age. not saying it's bad to do what we're doing here, it's awesome what is being done, but it is a risk that should be considered</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>one thing that i find interesting about 1 Timothy 4:12 is that it says &#8220;do not let ANYONE look down on you because you are young&#8230;&#8221; not just adults, not just parents, but ANYONE. that includes your siblings, your peers. they may not always look down on you neccesarily because you are young but the reaction we have should be the same wether it&#8217;s looked down upon for age, race, religion, social status, friends, family, hobbies, etc, etc, the loist goes on and on. one thing we need to not do is focus so much on just age. not saying it&#8217;s bad to do what we&#8217;re doing here, it&#8217;s awesome what is being done, but it is a risk that should be considered</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2009/06/dont-let-them-despise-you/#comment-486443</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 02:41:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey! I read your dad's article in HSLDA this afternoon! It was wonderful. Please tell him I was very encouraged and can't wait to apply those principles with my kids. I've been very blessed to have parents who have believed in the "greenhouse" principles from the very beginning. I am soon to start training to be a nurse. (yay) :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey! I read your dad&#8217;s article in HSLDA this afternoon! It was wonderful. Please tell him I was very encouraged and can&#8217;t wait to apply those principles with my kids. I&#8217;ve been very blessed to have parents who have believed in the &#8220;greenhouse&#8221; principles from the very beginning. I am soon to start training to be a nurse. (yay) <img src='http://www.therebelution.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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